How my life has changed

We celebrated Chatterbox's 4th birthday yesterday. I determined that I am, officially, a Slacker Mom, as I cut every corner possible to make this day easy for myself. (I also am a Wimpy Mom, because I was still worn out!) We had a small get together with the Poulsens and Barberichs (minus dads who were working), Grandma and Grandpa, and Uncle Mark and Aunt Elisabeth. I bought some easy appetizers at Costco for that. Instead of homemade anything, we bought some pencils at the dollar store for C-box to distribute at preschool. I did make the cakes, because I figured that was the least I could do. Plus, I couldn't stomach the cost (or the cake, actually) if I bought it.

Anyway, with the party over, today I thought back to how my life has changed since this precious little girl made her debut.

• Bathroom habits--Where once I could go when and where I needed to, and spend as much time as I needed, I now find myself in painful agony holding it because, hey, that's the more appealing alternative to hauling little ones in a public restroom with me. If we're at home, I rush around getting them settled, fed, and quiet so that I can sneak away and steal a minute or two for myself in the necessary. But it's like there's a button on the seat; no sooner am I on it than I hear tiny voices--"Mom? Where are you?"
• Romance--It's actually hard to dust this memory off, it's so buried, but I am pretty sure there was a time in our lives where we could spontaneously decide to go out to eat or to a movie and be on our way within 5 minutes. I also recall (foggily) enjoying frequent meals in cozy, candlelit restaurants with ambiance. Now it seems our spot of choice must include a toy with the meal.
• Radio and music--Four years ago, I felt smarter. I listened to NPR every morning while driving to work. I also had pretty up-to-date taste in music. Now I'm thrilled (THRILLED) with the latest Laurie Berkner cd we gave C-box for her birthday because I could. not. handle. one more round of Barney, Mickey, Wiggles, old Laurie Berkner, or Raffi. Yes, we are in the car a lot.

I'm joking, of course. While those luxuries are occasionally pined for, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for my sweet, gentle, brainy, compassionate daughter. She is heaven-sent and her presence solidifies my faith in God and my devotion to my family. It's hard to remember life without her. Happy birthday, sweet one.

And thanks to all of you who mailed cards, called, or sent happy thoughts our way. We love our dear friends and family and miss you! See more pics on our website.